(continued from part 1)
I’ve tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.
I felt ridiculous when I went out and was totally incongruent with my personality.
But we all know that women pay attention to fashion, and like a well-dressed man.
I noticed that it was in my workout clothes or something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop that some of my best pickups occurred.
At the same time, I’d see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
This make me think… that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are…
I guess there is something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting women’s attention, they’ll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You DON’T have to look like a pick up artist.
To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.
However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This comes back to self-expression.
You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your “scene” is, what you think is cool.
Never change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn’t rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men’s clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next thing, make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated. A woman shouldn’t have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Wear shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Clean up yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a respectable haircut. Figure out what looks great for if you shave or not to shave, and take it all the way.
One other thing…
Accessories should adhere off you loosely, and have a look of a small decoration that says, “yeah, I can fuck.”
Use your intuition with this one. I don’t want to say too much because that’s a whole other topic.